Sunday, June 29, 2025

Weekly Roll

 

Na
first zinnia of the year
forecast zinnia
Linky Love

Summer Reading Challenge for Families

Woman Honor Dead by Cooking the Recipes Found on Their Gravestones - I have been following Rosie on Instagram ghostly.archive. I am excited about the book

Literary Tourism National Parks

Inappropriate Thoughts

goat head bouquet

If you want flowers, grow flowers. If you try to grow a yard in New Mexico, you will have weeds.

Saturday, June 28, 2025

52 Ancestors - Family Drama

 I was contacted about a branch of the Liston's I knew very little about. There is a method in genealogy called the FAN  - Friends, Associates, and neighbors. I thought I would do a little bit of that type of research with this branch.   


This researcher was trying to connect Roy Cecil Liston as the son of Mary Margaret "Maggie" Liston. Based on very circumstantial evidence both of us believe he is the only child of Maggie. We have no primary evidence such as birth certificate, marriage certificate or death certificate that might list Maggie as the mother of Roy. 

Rachel Liston's Grave

While I can't answer the research question "Who is Ray Cecil Liston's mother." I believe I can answer the question, "Did my Great Grandparents both Hoyt's and Liston's know Ray Liston and Maggie Liston? "I will also explain why I think there was some estrangement between the Liston's based on an event I have already researched.

Let me introduce to you some of this Liston branch of my tree. The head of this mini branch is Jacob H Liston and his wife Rachel Fulton.  Jacob was born in Pennsylvania and Rachel Fulton was born in Ohio. Jacob Liston is a Civil War veteran for the Union. He was wounded in the left shoulder. Rachel and Jacob were married in 1865. Jacob and Rachel had their oldest daughter, Maggie" in Illinois. Eventually they moved to Iowa. They lived mostly in Cass County, Iowa. We know this from census records. Jacob and Rachel had 5 children:

Mary Margaret "Maggie" Liston  1865-1931 (unmarried)

Benjamin F Liston  1871 -1960  (Rose W Liston)

Samatha J Liston Purdy 1874-1910 (John F Purdy)

Evelyn L Liston Spies 1879-1964 (Louis Peter Spies Jr)

Jacob Harrison "Harry" Liston 1881-1962 (Margaret Moat)

In 1895 Iowa Census there were 123 Liston's or variation of Liston's listed in this census.  In 1895 Jacob Liston passed away. He was the father of Maggie. Roy Cecil Liston shows up in the Census often with Rachel and Maggie Liston. In 1910 they show up in the census with my Great Uncle Charles Liston they are living in the same household.  Charles Liston had lost his wife in 1909, and they had 3 young children.  Most likely they were there to assist him in running his farm and household. Rachel and Maggie Liston show up in this 1910 census as housekeepers and Roy as a hired man for Charles Liston. 1910 is also the year that Samatha, daughter, of Rachel died from Scarlett fever along with her young daughter and unborn child.

In 1917 Maggie's brother, Harry Liston, and my great grandparents, Reason Hoyt and Joseph Liston, are basically living in the same neighborhood.  Those circled on this map Union 1917 Farmers Map are related to me. The star is Jacob "Harry" Liston's property.


Rachel dies in Yuma, Colorado in 1929 and the body is shipped back and buried in Newlon Groves Cemetary in Cumberland Iowa.  Both Ray and Maggie are mentioned as accompanying the body. Maggie dies in Yuma, Colorado at her brother's house, Harry, and the body is sent to Cumberland.

Jacob Liston's Gravestone

Some things that stood out to me are, Rachel and Jacob and all some of their children are buried in Newlon Grove Cemetary in Cumberland, Cass County, Iowa but Roy Cecil Liston is not. This is significant because both Maggie and mother both died in Colorado but were buried in Newlon Grove Cemetary

Secondly, I recognized a surname that is not a relative but related to an incident that occurred in 1900. My relative Reason T Hoyt was involved in Hattie Spies' death in 1900.  Hattie's brother is Louis Peter Spies Jr. who married Maggie's sister Evelyn.  Reason Hoyt's son Delbert Devere Hoyt married Marvel Liston. Marvel and Delbert are my grandparents. This is a possible cause of the estrangement.

My next part will be Roy Cecil Liston's story or what I know of his story.

Wednesday, June 25, 2025

Wordy Wednesday


 Who else loves a dramatic exit?  Well the sign isn't very dramatic so the exit should be.

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Freezing the Beast


I decided to freeze my starter a couple weeks ago. My starter is named the Beast. It is in honor of my mom who made a song up that basically went, "Grandma is the best." Her grandchildren turned it into Grandma is the beast. So yes, I named my starter the Beast. Starter is hard to keep fed during the summer and tends to overproof due to the heat. I live in the desert basically.



Sunday, June 22, 2025

Weekly Roll

coneflowers and weeds

Linky Love

Hidden Treasure Hikes - You know how I like to hunt for treasure

Summer Reading Adventure

New Mexico Chipmuck to be put on endangered list

Inappropriate Thoughts




We were sitting a couple booths back from this sign at Texas Roadhouse. Is it really necessary to sell advertising for death while you eat your steak?  Is this the death booth?  That is where they sit people who have the widow maker heart attack after eating their tomahawk steak.

Deep Thoughts

A family member reached one year of sobriety a couple weeks ago.  They were doing a follow up appointment with their care provider, and I realized this is a huge milestone. I am so proud of them.  Fighting addiction is hard.  I am glad they decided to fight.


Friday, June 20, 2025

Field Trip - Fort Stanton

I read Everything is Tuberculous by Green and I had remembered that Fort Stanton had been home to a TB hospital. So, we went on Flag Day. This time my husband and son got to raise the flag.



I spent more time at the TB hospital that treated Merchant Marines with TB.  One of the points that John Green makes is that New Mexico became a state because so many white people came here to seek the cure. 


Fort Stanton has been many things Military Fort, TB Hospital, German Internment Camp to just to name a few. Recently a fire came close and burned the Gym and a few buildings in May. We also got tour the fort cemetery which neither my husband nor I had done before. We have visited the nearby cemetery where the Veterans cemetery is located and also where all the Merchant Marines were buried who died of TB.



Previous Fort Stanton visit- Click Here


Thursday, June 19, 2025

Throwback Thursday

 


This is a favorite picture of my oldest with my parents. It is just so funny to me.  My son acting shocked was hilarious. Picture was taken at the San Diego Zoo in March 2001. We have a lot of good San Diego Zoo memories.

Monday, June 16, 2025

What I Read June

 I am linking up with Modern Mrs Darcy.  I am enjoying my summer reading. Yes, summer reading is for adults! Check out what everyone else is reading.

The books I read this time I feel like I share a very personal connection with.


Everything is Tuberculosis by John Green

This was a book I read for book club. I had no idea that this would be so interesting. I thought this fascinating. I don't think most people realize that TB is the world's most deadly disease. It is also a curable disease. The book follows Henry in Sierra Leone and his journey with having TB. You can't help to fall in love with Henry.  Another interesting aside and related "Everything is Tuberculosis" that the New Mexico basically became a state so people could seek the cure.  I visited Fort Stanton that was many things but also served as a TB hospital for Merchant Marines. 

I have a personal connection to TB. My dad was treated for latent TB.  This was written before USAID was cut.



The Paris Library by Janet Skeslien Charles

I thought this was a good book but took me a few chapters to get into it. This is based on a true story about the American Library in Paris.

"In the Paris Library, inspired by the true story of librarians at he the American Library in Paris during World War II, two women come of age under very different circumstance - one in occupied Paris and one in rural Montana some forty years later."

My personal connection is that my husband's grandmother, Nanna, was in Paris during WWII and she was also a war bride. I kept thinking I wonder if she was a subscriber(patron) of the American Library. She worked at the Department of Education in Paris. Nanna was multilingual. 

Sunday, June 15, 2025

Weekly Roll - Father's Day

Cone Flowers and Lavendar

 Linky Love

Zebra Captured After 8 days - Can you believe "Ed" was on the loose for 8 days! Ed got to go for a ride


Easy Chicken Kabobs - I made these while my husband was away. They were delicious and all simple ingredients.

Rose Ark - This is a short film from Floret on her rose project. Gosh I always get so inspired.

Deep Thoughts


Happy Father's Day, Dad. I love you and you have been an awesome and amazing Dad and Grandparent. Thought I would share some of my favorite pictures of my dad with my kids.







Friday, June 13, 2025

Post Crossing

 

Postcard I Sent
Floret Postcard

I kind of really like postcards or maybe I just like good mail/fun mail. I decided to try Postcrossing. Postcrossing is where you exchange postcards with people across the world. You sign up and a computer randomly picks a fellow postcrossing person and you send them a postcard with special number on it and you register it. After you register the postcard, your name goes into the cue, and someone sends you a postcard. 

This is my new hobby.  I have been doing it for a month. I have received 1 postcard and 3 of my 8 postcards sent have been registered - 2 US, and 1 Germany.  All my outstanding cards were sent overseas from Malaysia to Australia. You get the gist. It is a slow hobby as it takes a while to receive a postcard.

Sent a Couple of These Postcards

10 Reasons I love about Postcrossing

6 Months of Postcrossing

Postcrossing

I had this postcard made through Zazzle

Below is the first post crossing postcard I received. It was from a Postcard meet up. I thought it was interesting.


Below is some of my stats that Postcrossing provides for the Month of May.



Thursday, June 12, 2025

Throwback Thursday

 


June 6, 2016

My oldest son made this collage picture of Owl at the school he attended. He is not much of an artist, but he nailed this.

Sunday, June 8, 2025

Weekly Roll

 

These are Dangerously Delicious
Linky Love

Dept Q is a good watch on Netflix 

Hoka vs New Balance - I have worn both. I currently have Hoka's. I think article does a good job of comparing the brands.

Zebra on the Loose in Nashville - My son said maybe he is looking for the bluegrass. Hey, don't shoot the messenger. By the way who the heck keeps a pet zebra? Just so you know the Zebra is named Ed.

Things You Did Not Ask About but Here We are


The NBA finals are happening. Neither of my teams made it - Blazers and Bucks I just wanted noted that other people are keeping track of where former Blazers have landed including on the two teams in the finals -- article- Trail Blazers ties to NBA Finals. I know is a hyper fixation I have.

Saturday, June 7, 2025

52 Ancestors - Wedding

 I am using prompts from Amy Johnson Crow 52 ancestors in 52 days. This week's prompt is Weddings. I don't know about you, but I love a good wedding story. This is about my first cousin 3 times removed.

Let me introduce the Bride, Laura Martin Castill, her second wedding was in the Newspapers with headlines like "Balked at the "Obey Part" published in the Downs Times Thursday, March 2nd, 1911.  

Laura Martin was born in Preston West Virginia, October 15, 1866, to Jacob and Abby Martin.  Jacob her father was a Civil War Veteran. Laura migrated to Cass County Iowa as a young girl with her parents. Laura married Harvey Cassill a few months after her 17th birthday.

Harvey and Laura's Wedding Picture

Laura first marriage to Harvey Castill ended in divorce, she had 3 children with Harvey. She was living in Kansas City, Missouri when this second marriage took place in February 1911. Excerpt from the papers of the time below.

For some years, Laura kept company with a wealthy merchant and lumber dealer Charles Gillette of Osborne, KS, and in February 1911 they decided to get married, she at age 45 and he at 57. After obtaining a marriage license in Kansas City, Judge Cassimer Welch came to perform the nuptials. What transpired next was covered in newspapers throughout Kansas including the Wichita Daily Eagle, Chanute Daily Tribune, Beloit Daily CallTopeka Daily Capital and others.

"Will you take this woman to be your lawful wedded wife, to love and cherish---," Judge Welch repeated.

"I-I do," Mr. Gillette answered.

"Will you take this man to be your lawful wedded husband, to love, honor and obey?"

"Obey him? Him? No, sir!" Mrs. Cassill interrupted with emphasis.

The judge hesitated.

"You won't obey him, you say, Mrs. Cassill?" he asked.

"No, I won't obey that man."

"Then this marriage is off," Judge Welch announced.

The clerk looked at the judge. The judge looked at the clerk. Then the license was torn up by the clerk. Judge Welch reached for his hat and coat. Then the bride-to-be realized what was happening.

"But I want to marry this man, judge. Marry us."

Mrs. Cassill was almost pleading now, but it was too late. Judge Welch stepped into his motor car and drove away.

"She's a good woman and I'm glad it's over," Mr. Gillette said later in the light. "I'm married to her. Of course she's my wife. That judge didn't have any business saying we were not married."

After the refusal of the judge to finish the ceremony, Mr. Gillette took his intended to her room at 903 Wyandotte street. He went across the street to his room in the Orient hotel. He was quite happy about it but she locked the door of her room and said she wanted to think it over. Article from Minerd

According to the article in The Down's Times published March 2, 1911. They married again the next day with a new license. There is a record of one license.

The Groom is Charles Gillette, and he was indeed a well off merchant and lumber dealer.  Charles was born in New York state. He was a widower when he met Laura. At his death in 1919 no mention was made of his marriage to Laura. So, I have no idea how long this marriage actually lasted. Charles was buried next to his first wife, Harriett Bennett. (See Obituary Below)

Osborne County Farmer, Osborne, Kansas, Thursday, April 17, 1919, pg 1

Charles J. Gillette, from 1878 to 1910, one of the leading business men of Osborne, died in Chicago Saturday last. Word was received in a telegram to W. P. Gillette Sunday morning from C. M. Bristow. Mr. Gillette was overcome by gas, but the particulars have not been received up to the time f the Farmer going to press. The body arrived in Osborne yesterday on the Missouri Pacific and services were held at the cemetery, conducted by Rev. H. J. Lorenz of the M. E. church, and interment made beside the wife, who passed away Jan. 29, 1900. Mrs. Chas. B. Gillette arrived from Kansas City on the same train to attend the funeral. Her husband is with the American army in France. He is now the only survivor of this one time prominent Osborne family. The other son, Harry Gillette, died here last October. Chas. J. Gillette was born in Orleans county, New York, July 28, 1854. He was married in Osborne April 30, 1883, to Harriett Bennett. Deceased left Osborne in 1910 and had not been back since, making his home with his sons in Kansas City and Chicago.

A little bit more about Laura is that she ran at least two different boarding houses in Kansas City MO.  She died of lobar pneumonia with secondary cause being chronic alcoholism. Laura died in 1934.

Sunday, June 1, 2025

Weekly Roll

 


Random Thoughts and Links

Had to drive to Lubbock, Texas from New Mexico for a doctor's appointment. The scenery is right out of Landman.  Lubbock, Texas is home to Texas Tech and the Buddy Holly Museum. That is your fun fact for today.


Paint Mines Interpretive Park  - My Mom had a friend who visited here recently.

Adult Summer Bucket List - This one isn't overly ambitious; there is a few I looked up and just no - no to paragliding and whole lot of other stuff.