I am using prompts from Amy Johnson Crow 52 ancestors in 52 days. This week's prompt is Weddings. I don't know about you, but I love a good wedding story. This is about my first cousin 3 times removed.
Let me introduce the Bride, Laura Martin Castill, her second wedding was in the Newspapers with headlines like "Balked at the "Obey Part" published in the Downs Times Thursday, March 2nd, 1911.
Laura Martin was born in Preston West Virginia, October 15, 1866, to Jacob and Abby Martin. Jacob her father was a Civil War Veteran. Laura migrated to Cass County Iowa as a young girl with her parents. Laura married Harvey Cassill a few months after her 17th birthday.
Harvey and Laura's Wedding Picture
Laura first marriage to Harvey Castill ended in divorce, she had 3 children with Harvey. She was living in Kansas City, Missouri when this second marriage took place in February 1911. Excerpt from the papers of the time below.
For some years, Laura kept company with a wealthy merchant and lumber dealer Charles Gillette of Osborne, KS, and in February 1911 they decided to get married, she at age 45 and he at 57. After obtaining a marriage license in Kansas City, Judge Cassimer Welch came to perform the nuptials. What transpired next was covered in newspapers throughout Kansas including the Wichita Daily Eagle, Chanute Daily Tribune, Beloit Daily Call, Topeka Daily Capital and others.
"Will you take this woman to be your lawful wedded wife, to love and cherish---," Judge Welch repeated.
"I-I do," Mr. Gillette answered.
"Will you take this man to be your lawful wedded husband, to love, honor and obey?"
"Obey him? Him? No, sir!" Mrs. Cassill interrupted with emphasis.
The judge hesitated.
"You won't obey him, you say, Mrs. Cassill?" he asked.
"No, I won't obey that man."
"Then this marriage is off," Judge Welch announced.
The clerk looked at the judge. The judge looked at the clerk. Then the license was torn up by the clerk. Judge Welch reached for his hat and coat. Then the bride-to-be realized what was happening.
"But I want to marry this man, judge. Marry us."
Mrs. Cassill was almost pleading now, but it was too late. Judge Welch stepped into his motor car and drove away.
"She's a good woman and I'm glad it's over," Mr. Gillette said later in the light. "I'm married to her. Of course she's my wife. That judge didn't have any business saying we were not married."
After the refusal of the judge to finish the ceremony, Mr. Gillette took his intended to her room at 903 Wyandotte street. He went across the street to his room in the Orient hotel. He was quite happy about it but she locked the door of her room and said she wanted to think it over. Article from Minerd
According to the article in The Down's Times published March 2, 1911. They married again the next day with a new license. There is a record of one license.
The Groom is Charles Gillette, and he was indeed a well off merchant and lumber dealer. Charles was born in New York state. He was a widower when he met Laura. At his death in 1919 no mention was made of his marriage to Laura. So, I have no idea how long this marriage actually lasted. Charles was buried next to his first wife, Harriett Bennett. (See Obituary Below)
Osborne County Farmer, Osborne, Kansas, Thursday, April 17, 1919, pg 1
Charles J. Gillette, from 1878 to 1910, one of the leading business men of Osborne, died in Chicago Saturday last. Word was received in a telegram to W. P. Gillette Sunday morning from C. M. Bristow. Mr. Gillette was overcome by gas, but the particulars have not been received up to the time f the Farmer going to press. The body arrived in Osborne yesterday on the Missouri Pacific and services were held at the cemetery, conducted by Rev. H. J. Lorenz of the M. E. church, and interment made beside the wife, who passed away Jan. 29, 1900. Mrs. Chas. B. Gillette arrived from Kansas City on the same train to attend the funeral. Her husband is with the American army in France. He is now the only survivor of this one time prominent Osborne family. The other son, Harry Gillette, died here last October. Chas. J. Gillette was born in Orleans county, New York, July 28, 1854. He was married in Osborne April 30, 1883, to Harriett Bennett. Deceased left Osborne in 1910 and had not been back since, making his home with his sons in Kansas City and Chicago.
A little bit more about Laura is that she ran at least two different boarding houses in Kansas City MO. She died of lobar pneumonia with secondary cause being chronic alcoholism. Laura died in 1934.