4th time is a Charm -Rose Growing

 

I am ashamed that so far, I have killed 3 roses.  Granted they should have tried harder.  I have learned a few things such as my dog was peeing on them wasn't good so not totally my fault, right.  This is my 4th rose. I finally planted it. I put lattice around it to prevent dog spray from hitting the rose. I have been babying it. Say a prayer.  Isn't the color amazing on the bloom.

Rose Plum Perfect

Lady Gardenton I am not more like Lady Rose Killer.

Wordy Wednesday

 

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Annie and Luce (Lucifer)

Nonna's Cats

Inappropriate Thoughts

I almost had to put a BOLO out for my dad.  I took him and my older son to the mall and my dad said he had to use the restroom.  I said we meet you outside and we will continue on to the store.  I waited for him and no dad.  I called my mother and she said, "Did he go to Barnes and Noble?" I said that is a walk. This was an outdoor mall and Barnes and Noble was at the other end.  I checked the nearest restroom. No sign of my dad. Sure, enough about 20 minutes here strolls my dad. He managed to trek all the way to Barnes and Noble.  He had gone to the restroom and gotten a book. This is the same man my mom lost in Barnes and Noble for like an hour.  

Deep Thoughts

Sharon McMahon commence address was cancelled to UVU. She shared it on the Preamble She talks about a durable hope.  It is worth a read.

Wordy Wednesday

 

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What is in my Analog Bag

Books, Pens, Paper, Protein Bar

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Analog Bag Trend Is a real book in your purse analog enough been doing that since the 80s.  LOL Analog Bag: Gen Z's Solution to Doomscrolling I go to a lot of appointments with other people so I usually bring something to do.

Inappropriate Thoughts

There is a new weather term, and it is Particularly Dangerous Situation (PDS). I think we need to use this as a work term.  My husband doesn't agree.  I also think it is a mighty fine band name.

Deep Thoughts

April is Autism Awareness Month. My older son has autism.  He is an adult with autism.  I have written a lot about his childhood.  It no longer my place to tell his story.  I can only tell you my perspective as a caregiver and a mom.  From my perspective we have come so far in identifying autism and creating interventions at the adolescent level.  Schools want always to improve functioning, but the adult system is built on proving how disabled you are. I have seen inclusion, meaningful work, and being accepted can improve life for people with autism.  I don't think this is easily accomplished in the adult world.  Finding supportive situations is extremely challenging.  

Creative Condundrum

 Lately I have had too many creative ideas, and the result is I haven't worked on any of them.  Maybe I just need to write them all down.

Lady Gardenton - I saw this idea on Damask Love.  I have the perfect outfit for a garden photo shoot.

Make Postcards - We don't have an Artesia postcard.  There is one of the mural in the library. At $5 a postcard not realistic to send out for postcrossing. I would like to have some of my own city card options.  I also have some ideas for slightly inappropriate postcards. I even made of list of ideas.  That is kind of progress

Welcome to Artesia Mural

Start working on my Valentine's designs.  I know Valentine's is a long way off.  I have ideas but I haven't discovered if the concept works.

Keep Junk Journaling

Combo of Junk Journal and Potential Inappropriate Postcard

Wordy Wednesday

 

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Chocolate Pistachio Loaf Cake - I might make this for our author meet for book club

Spicy Older Ladies Blazer Fan Club Update 

In case you haven't heard the Blazers are the 7th seed in the playoff and play the San Antonio Spurs tonight. The Spicy Older Ladies Blazer Fan Club is really excited.  We might have squealed when they won the play in. 

Why the Blazers Won't Get Swept by the Spurs

Deep Thoughts

March Junk Journal Spread

 

Surprise under the postcard

Is this a junk journal/scrapbook?  I don't know.  It is kind of a chaos journal.  It is my small way of being creative. 

What I Read in April

 I am linking up with Modern Mrs Darcy's quick lit.  Check out what everyone else is reading.

1929 By Andrew Ross Sorkin

This book covers the 1929 wall street crash. It compressively pulled together all the information of those involved. The wealthy men who were running the markets.  The crash wasn't a quick event like we were taught in school. This was a book club book and it is hefty read. It is so well written and almost reads like a who done it.  

Rabbit Holes

I couldn't help but google a bunch of stuff

Charles Mitchell's Mansion in New York

bifurcation

Tammay Hall

Smoot Hawley Tariffs

Book Flight

Someone in our book club suggested reading Kirsten Hannah's The Four Winds along with this.  It is a much easier read and a good story about the dust bowl. I believe this was in Modern Mrs Darcy's Summer Reading Guide 2021.

Wordy Wednesday

 

Spicy Older Lady Blazer Fans Appreciation

Well, well, no one is more surprised than us that the Blazers made the play in for the post season.  We are delighted and excited to see what happens. They play the Phoenix Suns tonight.  The play in games are on Amazon Prime

We have some favorite players that will be playing

Deni Avdija aka Turbo - Not hard on the eyes either

Donovan Clingan aka Cling Kong - Big Man from UCONN

Shaedon Sharpe - aka Sharpie - this guy can fly.  Probably due to all the Mac n Cheese he eats.

Jrue Holiday - this seasoned veteran is keeping hope alive.  The Blazers would not be in this position without him

Inappropriate Thought

I think the Blazers Acting Head Coach resembles Sam the Eagle.  I can't unsee it.  I worry that the creases in his forehead might be becoming permanent.

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first clematis bloom

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April is Autism Awareness Month

Jonathan Huong is still missing from Mt Vernon, Washington.. Jonathan is an adult with Autism.

Inappropriate Thoughts

We had a little Easter explosion. We had a Pyrex dish explode with hashbrown casserole.  Already hot dish was placed on a hot burner.  Kaboom! Only the hashbrown casserole was harmed.

Deep Thoughts

I got a big surprise via mail in the form of a glitter egg.  I am going to be an unofficial official great aunt.  I am not a blood relation, but I consider this one of my nieces. I feel that it is such a privilege to be included as an unofficial auntie.  This bun in the oven is going to have lots of aunties, tia's, and uncles. I AM SO EXCITED FOR THE LUCKY COUPLE!  They will be excellent parents.

Turkey Vultures

We had a strange weather month March was in New Mexico.  We saw a high of 100.  Then a drop in temperature by about 40 degrees. Everything is blooming.  I saw our usual migration of Turkey Vultures in their usual perch about a couple blocks away for 1 day and the next when the temperature dropped. They were gone. We were out walking our dogs the other day, and we saw about 50 Turkey vultures roosting in a completely different area. 

I had forgotten that I saw a turkey vulture in Washington State with my babysitting kid. (2010)

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Owls fall from Ceiling in Walmart Garden Center

Brighten Someone Day with this 10-word Message This is a good reminder

Inappropriate Thoughts

Kyle Scheele was talking about his Chaos wall.  Do I need an Inappropriate Wall or Inappropriate Journal.  Yes, my brain is random.

Deep Thoughts

I reminded that HOPE IS AN ACTION not a FEELING.

The Case for Hope in an Exhausted America - Everyone knows I am a big Sharon McMahon fan.

52 Ancestors - An Address with a Story

 I have been participating in Amy Johnson Crow's 52 Ancestors in 52 weeks writing challenge.  The prompt for two weeks ago was "An Adress with a Story". My story is more like a county with the story of 4 Virgin brothers.

The 4 Virgin brothers, George, Kinzey, Abraham, Rezin Virgin came to Mason County, Illinois in about 1837. The brothers traveled from Scioto County Ohio most likely via the National Road by wagon train. They will all settle near what would become Salt Creek Township. The Virgin brothers had spent most of their youth in Greenup County Kentucky which borders the Ohio river across from Scioto County Ohio.

county map of Illinois

Mason County highlighted yellow

George Teagarden Virgin was the oldest brother.  George was born in Pennsylvania in 1798.  George married Alcy Sikes in 1820 in Scioto Ohio. They never had any children. George and Alcy moved to Mason County in 1837. Goerge had purchase 80 acres in 1836 according to Illinois land records. In Mason and Menard County History, George is described as more domestic in nature and a corpulent man with Herculean strength.  Alcy his wife is described as the ambition of the pair.  George had a store house on his property and neighbors would often purchase things from the storehouse as the nearest groceries were 20 miles away in Havana. The storehouse had coffee, sugar, and other kitchen necessities.  The storehouse started as a small 8 x 10 building and eventually grew in a proper storehouse in the town of Hiawatha.  Unfortunately, in 1855, George would take vermin poison on accident.  He would mix up rodent poison and camphor on the mantle when he went to take it during the night, I have written about it before - tragedy. Alcy his wife would live until 1873 when she would succumb to cholera.

Big Grove Cemetery

Mason County, Il

Abram (Abraham) Virgin was in 1801 Fayette County, Pennsylvania. He married Elizabeth "Betsey" Enslow in 1822 in Scioto Ohio. When Abraham moved to Mason County between 1837 and 1839. Land records show that he purchased property in 1839.  Abraham built a log hut in an eastern part of the grove. On the land he raised stock and farmed.  Abraham and Betsey had 6 children. According to local Mason County history in 1853 he was afflicted with a mental malady and was confined to the Insane Asylum in Jacksonville, Illinois. 

The Asylum in Jacksonville had only opened in 1851. However, he recovered and went back to his normal life. Abraham died of Cholera in 1873. Abraham's wife, Betsey, also caught cholera in 1873 and was infirmed bedridden. She lived until 1877.

Big Grove Cemetery

Mason County, Il

Rezin Virgin was born in Pennsylvania in 1803, and he spent his growing up years in Kentucky. He married several times. He first wed Eliza Pool Whitcomb in Scioto Ohio in 1827. This marriage did not to last for whatever reason Eliza goes on to marry another.  In 1837 Rezin settles in Mason County Il.  Rezin goes on to purchase a considerable tract of land on the north side of the grove. He marries the widow of Ephraim Brooner, one of the early settlers of Mason City township.  Their house was a log cabin on the south side of a large pond. He improved the land and later life moved his farm about a mile further northeast.  The history of Mason and Menard County notes that Rezin was a man of great energy but physically weak. The History also notes that he is a peculiar and eccentric person known far and near as Uncle Reze. There are no known children. Rezin died at age 68.

Rezin Virgin's Grave

Big Grove Cemetery

Mason County, IL

The youngest Virgin brother was Kinsey Virgin. Kinsey Virgin is my3rd great grandfather and he was born in 1807 in Pennsylvania. Virgin family ends up in Scioto Ohio.  Kinsey marries Eliza Young in 1831.  Land Records indicate that Kinsey purchased land in Mason County in 1839. Kinsey was to build a log hewed house. He raised livestock and he was enterprising.  However out of his 6 children only one lived to adulthood my second great grandmother, Mary Eliza Virgin. For every child he buried he had a funeral preached ty the "little Baptist preacher", John L Turner of Crane Creek. Kinsey was to die in 1852 and Eliza in 1854. Kinzey was only 45

Find a Grave

Swing Grove Cemetery

Mason County IL

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 We have a new member in our family - meet Scotty. Yes, we have a new laser. 

this is where I got the name of laser

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Easy Meals for Single Guys - I don't know if single guys or gals read my blog, but these seem like really decent meals. I am big fan of Good Cheap Eats

6 Beginner Hobbies for Spring - Yes, pickleball is on the list

Deep Thoughts 

I was talking about the universe giving you sign and hopefully it is the thumbs up and not the middle finger.  It has kind of been a middle finger type of month here for a myriad of reasons. The good thing there is always a chance the universe is going to smile upon you and give you the thumbs up.

Wordy Wednesday

 

What I Read March

 I am linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy Quick Lit. Check out what everyone else is reading.

To Sir Phillip, with Love by Julia Quinn

This is part of the Bridgerton series that has been made into a series on Netflix.  I am a big fan. Eloise is one of my favorite characters.  Her specific love story hasn't made it to the series yet.  I read the book in a day. It is a bodice ripper so if that is not your jam this book isn't for you.  I did not read any other books in the series but have watched the Netflix series.  This was a good palate cleanser from the other nonfiction books I have read.

To Die For: A Cookbook of Gravestone Recipes by Rosie Grant

I have been following along on Instagram Rosie's journey to record all the graves that have recipes on them. She actually visited the graves and brought the recipe.  More than that she met the families and wrote their loved one's story.  I love how food unites us.  It made me think about what recipe I would put on my gravestone.  It probably would be my go-to cookie "World's Best Cookies".  I loved the stories and I can't wait to try these recipes.

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My dog Rhett says HI!

Inappropriate Thoughts

I love how optimistic I am in the Spring about my garden. It seems like spring has come to New Mexico. I like to remind myself I feel quite a bit different when it is 103 degrees and I am trying to keep the garden alive.  

DamaskLove - Lady Gardenton

Maybe I need to channel my inner Lady Gardenton

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Are you ready for St Patty's Day? I usually make a Pistachio Bundt Cake   I know I mention this every year.

Shamrock Paper Chain - It seems like paper chains are popular

Got the Gardening Itch

 

Look at the dahlias on the front of the Baker Seed catalog.  They almost look like poinsettias. My garden is starting to wake up. It will be in the 90s next week. I am holding off starting seeds until the end of March.  This is a tool by inputting your zip code you can determine your last frost date.

Clematis

Lasst year, I drew a little plan of my backyard.  I have a hard time remembering all the names of the plants.

Most of my borders are purple/blue plants.  I hope to add more purple and some white to the borders. We have a gutter above the shop door so I hope we can add another water barrel.  Anyway, to conserve water I want to do.  We also need to finish the drip lines to the rest of the border.  

There is something always to do in the garden. I can't wait for the flowers this year.

Wordy Wednesday

 

Recycled Art Show

Adults

 I thought I would give you a glimpse of all the entries. The art show is sponsored by Artesia Clean and Beautiful and held at the Artesia library. The turnout was on the slimmer side. 

Adults

Adults

Kids

I even won a ribbon - 3rd place in one of the adult divisions.