20 cent gardening gamble

I think that sunflowers are happy flowers.  I just love them and I don't believe my garden is complete without them.

I found these Lemon Queen Sunflower seeds in the 20 cent seed selection at Walmart. The Great Sunflower Project suggests the Lemon Queen Sunflower to grow.  I decided to gamble and buy the cheap seeds.  I have had varying luck on growing sunflowers but "try and try again" is my motto.

Couldn't resist posting this pic of my oldest
at the San Diego Zoo

 Need step by step directions head on over to One Hundred Dollars a Month and Mavis will give you the low down.

Things I learned in April

Chuck going down the slide
at the aquatic center in Loveland CO
even though he cried the whole way

1.Vacation is good for the soul.  We got a chance to go to Colorado with the kids Spring Break.  It was the perfect low key vacation.  I haven't laughed that hard in so long.  It made me realize the weight/stress I was carrying.  It felt wonderful to leave that behind for a few days.

2. The bible verse below was on Beth Moore's Facebook page. It has been speaking to me. Many days I feel invisible and I spend my days only talking to kids for a huge portion of the day. It can be wearing and by it's very nature extremely isolating.

"The Lord talked to Hagar. She began to use a new name for God. She said to him, “You are ‘God Who Sees Me.’” She said this because she thought, “I see that even in this place God sees me and cares for me!” Genesis 16:13 -- Someone might need to hear today that He sees AND He cares. Take heart, dear friend.

3. I realized my son didn't know the Smelly Cat song from Friends.  It was my pleasure to introduce him to that gem. He said he could tell it was from the 80's. Now he has something to sing while cleaning the cat box.

4. I realized I need to be creative.  I worked on a sewing project and I remembered that sewing brings me flow. 

5. Stickers are great motivation for adults too.  We actually give stickers out for those who complete their bible study homework.  I know it is silly for adults but effective.  I am using them for my walking workout.  I am giving myself a sticker for completing my walking workout.  It is a great visual on my calendar and it feels good to stick a sticker.

 

I am linking up with Chatting at the Sky and What I learned in April.

April Booking It

I am linking up with Booking It at Life as Mom.  Check out what everyone is reading.

I know that will be happy to know I found some fiction books I could sink my teeth into.  I ended my long streak of only reading non-fiction with the selections below.

Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein has had a lot of hype.  Some libraries classify this as a young adult read but I found it in the adult section.  I like that the story is told in a different way.

Only in wartime could a stalwart lass from Manchester rub shoulders with a Scottish aristocrat. But then a vital mission goes wrong, and one of the friends has to bail out of a faulty plane over France. She is captured by the Gestapo and becomes a prisoner of war. The story begins in “Verity”’s own words, as she writes her account for her captors. Truth or lies? Honour or betrayal? Everything they've ever believed in is put to the test . . . (Amazon)

This is an intriguing well told story.

Language of  Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh was a book I received at Christmas.  I actually started this book and took a 2 week break.  I love the Victorian concept that flowers have meaning and how two different stories are woven throughout the book.  I struggled I guess to like the main character Victoria maybe because she comes from a background in foster care and makes questionable decisions in regards to another young life. There are points I in the book where I want to shake her. However, this book is worth a read.

Lastly, I read Where'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Sample.  I was surprised how quickly I was drawn into this really quirky book.  I loved it was set in Seattle.  A lot of the observations about people of the Pacific Northwest certainly rang true to me.  Just like Bernadette, I moved here from Southern California. I live in a smallish town and sometimes even after 10 years living here I feel like a complete outsider. This book really spoke to me on many levels.  This book exaggerates what happens when you feel rejected and what you do to fill that spot.  It also speaks to what happens to you when you quit doing what you love and what comes along when someone tears you down. I loved this quirky tale. I found myself thinking about it long after I finished reading it.  So that is a mark of a good read for me.

LIGHT it up BLUE or NOT

April is Light it Up Blue for Autism.  I haven't done a post on Autism in a long time. 

My son is now 15 years old and a sophomore in High School . He wasn't diagnosed until he was in 7th grade. So, we as a family are relative new to the autism community. However, we are well past the awareness stage.  Autism or Autism Spectrum Disorder is part of our family. We were embracing Autism's reality long before it was a label our son had.

A couple of weeks ago, I spent my evening at a seminar/panel discussion on Understanding Behavior. There were experts there on Applied Behavior Analysts (ABA) . At the end of the session, we all stood in a circle and said the name of the child we were there for.  It was very powerful. I guarantee that each and everyone one of us in that circle wanted more than awareness for our children.   I stood in this circle of parents and I was keenly aware how much we wanted recognition, inclusion and acceptance for our kids. 

Awareness is not enough.  New statistics are out and 1 in 68 children are on the spectrum.  So chances are statistically speaking, you know someone on the spectrum. This booming population is going to need community.

Like a bell on a quiet night, I feel parents need to hear this most: we just want to connect children with the resources they need to thrive at home and at school and throughout their lives. Doesn’t matter what we call it, we want children of all backgrounds, of all resources, and all opportunity to be afforded the chance for a connected, lovely life. As a realist of course, I do know that numbers matter because it changes how we screen, how we advocate for children, how we move funds and resources, and how we ensure children get what we need. Numbers help activate. - Seattle Mama Doc

To be honest, I think we have had autism awareness months for enough time now. We have spread much awareness through local activities and the media. I really wish we could rename this month "autism acceptance month", and focus attention on doing an act of companionship; something in your local community to communicate acceptance and companionship. Whet...her that be a sensory friendly movie day at the local theater, a diversity party at school, a showcase of talents displayed at school, an acceptance play at the local theater, or any display of true acceptance such as volunteering for special event days, or simply showcasing businesses that make accommodations for employees or set up a special support services for inclusion in the community. Even promoting peer mentors and reaching out with play dates at local parks. Actual acts of companionship that reaches out and touches both young and old on the spectrum. I know from experience that a physical act of companionship can establish not just awareness but acceptance.- Autism Discussion Page Facebook

I won't be lighting it up blue but only because I am too busy fighting for more than awareness. I have stood in the circle and I want more for my child than just awareness.

Some more links for thought

I really liked Floor Pie blog post Episodes of Inclusion

Museum of Discovery- Ft Collins, CO

I know another post from our Spring Break.  We really enjoyed our stop here at the Museum of Discovery in Ft Collins, Colorado.  This was a good one for adults and kids.  Where else can you find out if you are strong as a horse

Cody testing to see if he as strong as a horse

Or stand in a tornado chamber

photo by MRF

Or blow a made up horn. ( I loved that they had sanitized mouth pieces.) 

Charlie future horn player? He actually did get a decent sound of out of it.

lift a piano

Furious Ant and Cody

blow on a million sequin disks with a fan

Photo by MRF

This sign cracked me up. I am easily amused.

This also amused me.  Ah, so easily amused.

 



Easter Fortune Eggs

We are having a low key Easter here.  Last night, I decided to make Easter Fortune Eggs.  Here are a few of the gems my kids received in their Easter Basket. My kids are way past the age of the Easter Bunny so I attempted funny. This is what you get late night with plastic eggs and post it notes. Yes, I am a plastic egg hoarder and proud of it. 

 

Oh these just kept getting better and better. :) Here a few egg fortunes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Currently Around Here

I am working on a rag quilt.  This is the in progress picture. The layout was giving me fits but a consult with Mrs Epi seemed to resolve my difficulties. It is a little different than I done in the past.  I found my inspiration at Do It Yourself Divas.



My oldest son wanted everyone to see the above video. He thought it would make good blogging material.

I have started my garden.  Got potatoes planted.  I got sugar snap peas coming up.  Hopefully the zinnia sprouts will make it.  I need more dirt.

The Giant Man Child and I sat through Parent Night for incoming 6th Graders to Middle School this fall..  Wow, I don't know if my kid is ready for this.  I know I am not ready. They are predicting 185 incoming 6th graders.

So this is the busyness that is consuming us at our house.